
Its PARTY season!
This week, being the last week of school, sports, clubs and anything else we forgot to celebrate, has been a frenzy of pizza, ice cream, and treats of various shapes and sizes.
As I washed some kind of inedible cupcake frosting out of the car seat and my son's hair I realized that THEY too are crying 'uncle'...ENOUGH...
Hubby and I have been horrified at the amount of food and the occasions for food that have been pumped into our children since they entered the public education system. It is frightening, upsetting, out of control and seems to be entirely disconnected from the reality that there is a childhood obesity epidemic out there.
If the school is offering all of this "food" what lesson are they teaching the children? On the one hand the school sponsors wonderful programs
like "Read It Before You Eat It" to encourage children to recognize various items on food labels and to shun certain ones. In the next breath they condone the shoving of corn syrup, and hydrogenated oils into their cute little faces. Condone, in the sense that they allow all these parties to take place ON SCHOOL PROPERTY at SCHOOL FUNCTIONS.
Don't even get me started on the lunch room offerings. That is another entry waiting to be written.
Well, at least I'm not alone in my concern.
The other day, I
read a terribly written article in the NY Times about a mother's fight to quell the junk food craze at her children's public school. The money quote:
"I thought I was sending my children to PS 9, not Chuck E. Cheese"
Unfortunately the article took an important message and ended up vilifying the messenger.
Apparently, the mom is a bit too 'nasty' and has been seen only as a pain in the you know what.
Luckily, there is another group out there called
Moms Rising, who is petitioning congress to update the USDA's schools nutrition standards.
HERE is a link for a petition you can sign
BEFORE JUNE 24 to encourage congress to take selzer off the list of Junk Food items. Why is it on there? Because it has no vitamins. That is why your children can have juice at school, but not selzer. Duh.
I encourage you to log on and sign the petition. Do what we can nationally...it has to be a start.
On a local level, I plan to write a very kind, helpful letter to the various boards, committees and clubs that sponsor all of these parties. My message: There are many, many ways to celebrate without serving food. Children like to share their thoughts and ideas with adults who will listen and are interested. Children like to play party games and enjoy one another's company. Children like to dance and be silly and play charades, hear stories, act them out. Many children, girls especially just love 'hanging out' with older teachers/mentors and chat.
In the end, I think the goal of all these parties is to enjoy and celebrate children and their accomplishments. And well we should! I think it is time to reconsider how we do this and what messages we give to our children when we do.
Finally, on the matter of tipping points: As I was lamenting this past week over it all, I received an email from an old friend announcing the launch of her new, enviromentally friendly
PLANETBOX. A lunch box that can make healthy fun...and tells schools where they can put those 'lunches' they serve! Check it out!
Know Hope.